Lou Lim, LMHC, REAT
Big Magic - Creative Living Beyond Fear
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When navigating the hills and valleys of creativity, I found “Big Magic” as a tool to navigate the creative terrain. As an expressive arts therapist, it is important to feed your creative spirit as an act of fostering emotional/mental wellness. A book that has helped me with that is Elizabeth Gilbert’s Big Magic — Creative Living Beyond Fear.
The book emphasizes that in order to be creative, we are to navigate our fears - which according to Gilbert’s definition below qualifies all who read as creative. With that in mind, I will present the chapters of the book below with a few excerpts and notes I made that helped me as a therapist and person. I hope they serve you as they have me:
Chapter 1: Fear: “What is creativity? The relationship between a human being and the mysteries of inspiration. Do you have the courage? Do you have the courage to bring forth this work? The treasures that are hidden inside you are hoping you will say yes…if I want creativity in my life…then I will have to make space for fear too…allow(ing it) to have a seat…but…not allowed to have a vote”.
Chapter 2: Enchantment: “Creativity is a gift to the creator, not just a gift to the audience. Maybe we can’t all be pure divine channels (of inspiration), pouring forth unadulterated creation every single day without obstacle or doubt…but we may be able to draw nearer to that source than we think”.
Chapter 3: Permission: “You do not need anybody’s permission to live a creative life. Defending yourself as a creative person begins by defining yourself. It begins when you declare your intent. Stand tall and say it aloud, whatever it is. Create whatever causes a revolution in your heart.”
Chapter 4: Persistence: “How you manage yourself between those bright moments, when things aren’t going so great, is a measure of how devoted you are to your vocation, and how equipped you are for the weird demands of creative living.”
Chapter 5: Trust: “Anger represents some sort of energetic exchange, a type of relationship. We must recognize we are in the midst of a relationship in order to make an impact on it. Inspiration is always trying to work with me…I trust it; it trusts me. Curiosity can lead to passion. Try not to dwell on your failures…forgive self as needed and move on”.
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Lou Lim, LMHC, REAT is a licensed mental health counselor and registered expressive arts therapist (REAT) with a master's degree in Expressive Therapy and Mental Health Counseling from Lesley University. He is a member of the International Expressive Arts Therapy Association and on the committee for REAT credentialing. He has 13 years of experience in counseling and expressive therapy working with children, adolescents, teenagers, adults, and retirees.
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