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Building Secure Connections in Consensual Non-Monogamy: Strengthening Communication and Trust

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DATE: Tuesday, November 18th, 2025

TIME: 6:00 PM - 7:30 PM (EST)

Cost: Free* with a suggested donation of $10

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Online via zoom

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Consensual non-monogamy (CNM) can bring joy, freedom, and connection but it also asks for deep honesty and strong communication. This 90-minute workshop offers practical, evidence-based tools to help participants navigate jealousy, express boundaries, and build emotional security in multi-partner relationships. Drawing on Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Dialectical Behavior Training (DBT) and the Gottman Method, participants will reflect on their own needs and communication styles while learning skills to foster trust and repair across relationships. If you identify as someone involved in some form of Consensual Non-Monogamy this reflective space will help you strengthen your connection to yourself and those you love.​

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In this workshop you will learn:

  1. Evidence-based tools to improve communication in CNM contexts;

  2. To identify and express emotional needs using EFT-informed language;

  3. To strengthen boundary-setting and self-advocacy skills through DBT’s DEAR MAN framework;

  4. To introduce repair and reconnection techniques validated by the Gottman Method;

  5. How to support self-awareness and emotional regulation across multiple attachment relationships.

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Bring a ​pen and journal or paper and be ready for reflection.

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*This workshop is free with a suggested donation of $10 to benefit the Looking Glass Counseling Scholarship Fund. The LGC Scholarship Fund enables us to provide therapy services at a lower cost to people with limited financial resources. 

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Lace is a second-year Clinical Mental Health Counseling student at William James College, specializing in Couples and Family Therapy. She is especially passionate about working with couples, parents and individuals from non-traditional family systems, as well as those navigating racial, sexual, and gender identity development. Her approach is trauma-informed, culturally responsive and attuned to the intersectional identities clients bring into the room.

Lace’s perspective is also shaped by over 20 years in theatre education, youth leadership and trauma-informed arts programming, as well as her work with families navigating complex systems. She is a registered yoga teacher with training in somatic and emotional integration.

Somerville location and mailing address:

255 Elm Street, Suite 201

Somerville, MA 02144 

(617) 702-9131​

Medford location:

92 High Street, Suite DH27

Medford, MA 02155

(617) 702-9131​

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